Home Study Visit Complete

Things went VERY smoothly yesterday. In fact, they went so well that Bryan was almost worried it went too well. I guess he needs to worry about something. I'm very happy with how it turned out. Deb was very nice and, since she knows Wendy Will and the Erickson side from being a regular Shallows Resort guest, it felt like she already knew a little about me. She interviewed us for 2.5 hours about our lives, our childhood, our values, and how and why we want to adopt and raise a child. Then the last half hour we gave her a tour of our house and finished filling out some paperwork with her help.

So, now we need to get physicals and have the doctor fill out specific papers. Then we'll need to start filling out immigration paperwork and cross our fingers that the government processes it in a timely manor. She said its taking about 4-5 months when it used to take 2-3 months. New regulations have made it more difficult to adopt internationally. It's really unfortunate, but we're willing to take on the challenge of waiting. We also need to send in our old passports to be updated...but that shouldn't take too long.

In order to place a "hold" on a specific child, we also need to fill out a Parenting Resource Plan that is quite elaborate and will need some heavy research on our end. It's things like childcare plans, ESL options, special needs resources in schools, child counselors in the area, etc. It makes me wonder why new birth mom's aren't required to do these things...after all, the information will be useful.

Anyway, I think our fears were unwarranted and there really was nothing to worry about with the home study process. It will take our social worker, Deb, about 3-4 weeks to write up her findings and then send them to our international agency, WACAP, for their review. We have to do 18 hours of education on parenting an older adopted child and I'm looking forward to that. The more prepared we are, the better. Then its on to another set of paperwork called the Dossier to be compiled for the Thailand government's review. We'll hopefully have all this finished by the end of the year. Then it's a waiting game. Feels like, hurry up and wait!

So there you have it. Thank you all for the contributions and for your prayers! We really appreciate all your support and love!